A Crucial Definition
-Lucas Steven
LaFreniere-
Welcome, friends and family, educators
and schoolmates, to the ÒcommencementÓ ceremony of Negaunee HighÕs class of
2009- to our graduation.
I would like to take the honor of being
one of the very first to commend you, my classmates, on all of your lifeÕs
accomplishments and on achieving this day of success, Graduation, and
everything that that means, whatever it is.
You see I have been overwhelmed with that
little afterthought, the question of what graduating truly means. See,
everything signifies something, especially such a monumental date as
this. We progress through our senior year wading through the thick
anticipation of looming changes and unfamiliar pressures knowing full well what
the ÒendÓ result will be. It is this day. About you now
enfolds a patchwork tide of tassles, sashes, and gown wreathed embraces, an
almost tangible mist of pride, the fading tremble of a symphony that has cried
victoriously from its many strings that we have escaped the wretched clutches
of EllerbruchÕs red pen. But are those things, this ceremony, all that
today is? I think itÕs safe to say that it certainly is not. At
this very moment we are propelling through a symbol, a ceremony that is not
just a ÒcommencementÓ- the period plotted so boldly at the finish of our
childhood- but the inception of a booming, lasting echo, the ignition of
something much greater. So if it is not simply the wave of a class ring
garnished hand goodbye, what is this graduation? I think that we, my friends,
should know what graduation is before we attempt to embrace it. We should
define it.
Because you see, when we define
something, when we actually understand the entire spectrum of an idea, it
becomes a part of us, a fraction of our knowledge and insight without
assumptions or falsities, and thatÕs what weÕre here today to do, right?-- to
let Negaunee High School , if not our entire town in all its comfort and
peculiarity, solidify as a foundational stone in our existence-to-be. Today
our time at NHS becomes an unalterable facet of our history, a limb in the web
of our lives that we cannot delete or amend. If we can define graduation
and disintegrate any ignorance about the day, then we can rejoice in a true
understanding of our accomplishments as we grab that diploma with full
confidence and say ÒI am ready. I comprehend who I have become. I
want this history that I have been given, that I have partially forged
myself. I want this to consume and refine me, temper me.Ó We have
been preparing for this consciously or unconsciously for a long time, the reach
and grasp of that vital little folder, but are we ready? I suppose my
tragically tangled mind would say that we must define Ògraduation dayÓ to find
out.
ÒTradition never graduatesÓ I have
carried that iconic phrase across my chest every couple of weeks since
basketball camp in 2002. YouÕve no doubt witnessed the maize t-shirt that
IÕm talking about. ItÕs no secret that Negaunee values tradition, and I
think that often that is a good thing. But, for us, for the class of
2009, traditional definitions of graduation simply will not suffice. I
would venture to presume that tradition would say that today, the day of
graduation, is defined as a moment for crossing thresholds in ourselves to
become something greater, for looking back on our past with all its joys and
tribulations, and for embarking into something wild and new with the goal of
self progress or at the very least the fulfillment of a little bit of our
potential. Well yes, all those things are wonderful and true, But, if
that is all that graduation is, then how can we say that is it different from
any other day? The acts of growing, remembering, and fervently
anticipating our future are not exclusive to graduation and they shouldnÕt be-
No, it is separate. It is the
chance to sum up all the events, thoughts, and relationships of our past and
smile, and shed an infinite tear, and love something lost yet perpetual.
A landmark chance to say ÒThis is who I am, thus farÓ. Have you asked
yourself who that person is? ItÕs not the same person that donned those
awkward ancient frosh football pads, not the same person who rapped together
their stinging palms at their first winter carnival talent show, not the same
person that tried to approach our beloved shawn connery wannabe Mr. Robert
Bonetti only to find that he doesnÕt talk to freshman. No, weÕve mixed
and matched relationships and skills, intensified certain passions and let
others expire, enhanced ourselves. WeÕve learned, especially things like
when, while demonstrating literally, Mr. Marana taught us that we must chew up
our own miner stadium turf, even if it needs a little ketchup, to never let
anyone take us in our own yard. No, we are not the same as we once were.
Graduation is the greater-than-grand total of these foundations and lessons
within us. It is feeling content about how far along the renovation and most likely
re-renovation our interior selves has come. It is the spyglass through
which we can see, in every one of us, our success.
And yeah guys, I honestly believe that
each person before me is blooming with success. I believe this because I
have experienced your significance. Everyone here today has captured a
fragment of anotherÕs being. I know that over the past twelve years each
and every one of you has had significance in my life, some minute and some
monstrous, but some none the less- I have no doubts about that. And for
this, for our significance to each other and to ourselves, we walk here today as
successes.
WeÕve made it this far havenÕt we?
Why would anyone even think to congratulate us if graduation from high school
did not take a certain perseverance, I mean, do you remember having to endure the movie ÒHOOKÓ three
full times during KJÕs health class? Graduation from that sort of thing
brings success with it like a tailwind..
And you see, success can be looked at in
many ways, but this is the way I see it: Success is the summation of
potential and determination. ThereÕs no GPA, no monetary value, no
university-emblem emblazoned words in that definition- just potential plus
determination. I say without hesitation that every person breathing in
the class of 2009 holds potential. We may make mistakes, like backing up
into buses and earning the titles such as Leander ÒBuslickerÓ Johnson, but they
do not weigh in to such a naturally granted thing as capability. The
second, Determination, is determined by the individual.. Success,
determined by the two of these. I believe whole-heartedly that, despite
the light-hearted cynicism of certain Government teachers, our class as a whole
is successful.
Because success
should be, if not already, determined not by statistics and numbers, but by the
quality of your relationships, the abundance of love that you have dealt and
have received, the dreams you have realized, the weight of your laughter, and
the volume of your happiness. What would you call fighting your way to a
admirable 8 and 1 football season, transforming an almost ecologically impotent
school into an official Michigan green school, or regularly demolishing four 18
inch pizzas in under twenty minutes as the fine fellows of Casual Pizza
Wednesdays so often do, if not success? What I truly want to say guys is
never, for a moment in your life, any of you, think that you have never been a
success, because I know, and these supporting, pride-beam reaming people around
you know that you are today, if not forever.
But the truth is, our worth is not determined by whether we have graduated or
how many white spaces there are on our red-ink dripping math
tests—measure your worth rather by the people that you have become, the
values you hold and how youÕve managed your life by those ideas. I see
men and women gathered here before me today not as college applicants or
students, sons, daughters, or graduates but individual souls each with worth
and with something to offer. Graduation is when the whole world gives a
pleasant bow to the person you have grown into, and looks ahead to the person
you will become. I understand that none of us are images of perfection,
but we are certainly visions of progress—that is what I see before me
today. Class of 2009, my friends, if you continue to grow as you have, if
you can find the worth in identity and in union, then I know that you can accept that diploma
today and not wallow in a stagnant life that rebounds in a circle but enjoy one
that, in an ascending line rather, will grow, will prosper, will
flourish. That
is the definition of graduation, a day to realize to yourself that you are
something more than the sum of your statuses or a clothes rack for a cap and
gown that has jumped the appropriate hoops. The definition of graduation
is the definition of your own selves.
You are exuding potential and hopefully you are searching for determination.
Now, my friends, go forth and be successful. God bless.